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Come Away: Rest and Rejuvenation for the Weary Soul

The moment we stop frantically controlling and begin quietly trusting, we step into the freedom of His Lordship.

Lisa Reddy
7 Min Read
“Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
(Matthew 11:28-30, NKJV)

Few passages of Scripture resonate more deeply with the human condition than these words of Jesus. In an age where productivity often substitutes for identity, and constant motion disguises itself as significance, the summons of Jesus to rest seems countercultural. Yet this is not an invitation to laziness or escape, but to a deep, soul-level rest flowing from trust in the Savior. This rest is the pathway by which His disciples learn who He is and how He calls them to live.

To better understand this invitation, we must first consider its context. Just before these verses, Jesus declared that His identity was revealed not to the wise and learned, but to those willing to humbly receive Him (vv. 25–27). Knowing who Jesus truly is—understanding His heart and His mission—is inseparably tied to resting in Him.

Jesus’ Example of Rest

Nowhere in Scripture is this reality more vividly portrayed than in the life of Christ Himself. As Paul declares in Philippians 2:6, though Jesus was “in the form of God, [He] did not consider it robbery to be equal with God.” Jesus did not use His divine prerogatives for personal advantage.

If anyone could have relied on Himself to get things done, it was Jesus. He could have ended hunger, silenced His enemies, or avoided suffering altogether. Yet instead of clinging to His rights, He humbled Himself. Instead of bypassing weakness, He embraced dependence.

Repeatedly in the Gospels, Jesus withdrew to solitary places to pray. After long days of ministry, He sought communion with His Father, not because He lacked power, but because He delighted in yielding Himself fully to God’s will. This is our model. If Jesus Himself—the One with all authority—chose rest in the presence of God over relentless striving, how much more must we?

The Danger of Transactional Faith

A proper theology of rest also protects us from treating God as a mere dispenser of blessings. When prayer becomes a transaction and worship a pursuit of personal benefit, disappointment inevitably follows. Many of us know this struggle. Have you ever avoided someone because they let you down? It can feel the same when we treat God as though He exists only to serve our whims. If He is only a cosmic assistant or a spiritual vending machine, then when our requests go unmet, we retreat in disappointment. We lose our desire to linger in His presence.

True worship cannot grow in this soil. When our communion with God is rooted only in what He gives, rather than in who He is, we will inevitably burn out. But when we understand His call to rest, we begin to see prayer not as negotiation but as invitation—an entry into His majesty and sovereignty.

Ceasing Striving

To cease striving is to confess the outcome of our lives does not depend on our ingenuity but on His providence. “Be still, and know that I am God” (Psalm 46:10) is not a call to idleness but to trust. Stillness is confidence—confidence that God is who He claims to be, and that His purposes will prevail even when our efforts fail. The moment we stop frantically controlling and begin quietly trusting, we step into the freedom of His Lordship.

The Fruit of Rest

Here, a reciprocal dynamic emerges: as we rest, our trust deepens; and as our trust deepens, our rest becomes more secure. This rhythm of grace produces spiritual vitality—faith that blossoms, communion that sweetens, and resilience that strengthens. Our renewed minds and refreshed spirits are freed to commune with God in ways striving never allowed. Hebrews 4 assures us that those who enter God’s rest can draw near to the throne of grace with confidence, finding mercy and help in times of need.

The fruits of such rest are unmistakable: restored confidence in Him, a renewed spirit within us, beauty in our outlook, balance in our priorities, boldness in our prayers. Rest reshapes us from the inside out. It restores the equilibrium of the soul that constant striving fractures. It empowers us to see God more clearly and ourselves more truthfully—as beloved daughters not defined by relentless accomplishment, but by divine adoption.

An Invitation for the Weary

Perhaps you feel the weariness pressing in—the endless responsibilities, the invisible weight of others’ expectations, the unspoken pressure to keep everything together. Jesus’ invitation is for you: “Come to Me.” He does not offer a five-step productivity plan. He does not demand perfection before you approach Him. His call is not to greater exertion but to a yoke that is easy, a burden that is light. To come away with Christ is not to retreat from reality but to encounter life fully under His Lordship and in His care.

So come away. Step out of the noise. Lay down the burden of self-reliance. Enter His presence not as a servant desperate to perform, but as a daughter welcomed to rest. In Him you will find what your weary soul most deeply craves—rest that restores, peace that endures, and hope that cannot be shaken.

About the Author

LISA REDDY is an ordained UPCI minister who serves as adjunct professor at Urshan University and chair of the SafeChurch UPCI committee. Mel and Lisa Reddy are the founders and pastors of The Sanctuary Church in Cedar Park, Texas, and love doing life with their teenage son, Jude.